Meet Holly Schaffner & Sweetly Sassy Toys
Empowering Confidence, Connection & Pleasure
Sweetly Sassy Toys is a woman-owned sexual wellness company founded by Holly Schaffner, MPH. We combine shame-free education, personalized guidance, and thoughtfully curated pleasure products to help adults feel more confident, connected, and empowered.
Because finding the right product shouldn’t feel like wandering through a sea of confusing descriptions and hoping for the best.
Meet Holly
Holly Schaffner, MPH, is a Certified Sex and Kink Educator, and Relationship & Intimacy Coach with more than 20 years of experience in the sexual wellness and pleasure-product industry.
With a background in public health, education, coaching, retail, and business ownership, Holly brings together evidence-informed information and real-world experience—with enough sass to make conversations about sex, intimacy, and pleasure feel approachable.
Her areas of expertise include:
- Sexual wellness and pleasure confidence
- Communication, intimacy, and desire differences
- Intimacy during perimenopause, menopause, and after hysterectomy
- Pelvic floor education and pleasure
- Consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and polyamorous relationships
- Kink, BDSM, consent, and scene negotiation
- Pleasure-product education, body-safe materials, and sex technology
Holly works with individuals, couples, and polycules of different identities, orientations, bodies, abilities, experience levels, and relationship styles.
Education Before Intimidation
Whether you’re buying your first vibrator, exploring kink with a partner, navigating changes in desire, choosing a lubricant, or trying to understand the latest app-connected pleasure technology, Sweetly Sassy Toys meets you where you are.
There are no embarrassing questions here.
Our goal is to give you honest information, practical guidance, and products that fit your body, preferences, comfort level, and goals—not simply sell you whatever happens to be popular.
Sweetly Sassy Toys and The Pleasure Professor
Sweetly Sassy Toys is where education meets carefully curated pleasure products.
Through The Pleasure Professor, Holly also offers workshops, private intimacy and relationship coaching, product-guidance sessions, and educational resources covering communication, sexual wellness, consensual non-monogamy, kink, BDSM, pleasure, and connection.
Together, the two brands create a complete place to learn, explore, shop, and build pleasure confidence—without shame, pressure, or awkwardness.
Why Shop and Learn with Sweetly Sassy?
- More than 20 years of sexual wellness and product experience
- Education from a certified sex and kink educator
- Inclusive, consent-centered, and pleasure-positive guidance
- Carefully selected pleasure products and intimacy essentials
- Honest explanations without confusing industry jargon
- Support for beginners, experienced explorers, and everyone in between
Everyone deserves accurate information, quality products, and the confidence to explore what feels good.
Ready to Explore?
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Educational use only. Communication, consent, comfort, and body-safe products always come first.